last december on christmas eve i went to church with my bf to attend mass (im studying abroad) here in italy. the church was packed with people and there were tons standing while attending, i had found an empty seat someone left and sat down, in the middle of the mass i noticed and old lady moving around, i got up and offered my seat, she said thanks and sat down. mass went on and near the end where you had to get in line to go up front came up, in italy no one goes in order, everyone heads in all at once, in the states as you all know, they go rows by rows organized. so we went all at once to get in line, we slowly got in line like everyone did and all of a sudden we heard a mumble, it was some old lady, she was saying all grumpy, 'oh look at these!! they cut in line bla bla!!' i looked at her and it was the same lady i gave my seat to...she didnt look at me nor recongnize me, but it left me in shock...
why are people, elders especially, like this? even on christmas eve..
Answer on Need some of your ideas as to why such thing happened....?
elderly folks tend to be grumpy sometimes, its because they have this sense of insecuritiy on things and people around them they feel left alone by their families and left behind by time. so they tend to sulk their life being inconsiderate and selfish sometimes and in some occasion just like what you have experienced even on christmas eve. all they need is caring and understanding from young people like you and you did that already by offering your seat to the old lady. those deeds like that is what christmas all about.
Monday, March 5, 2012
Sunday, March 4, 2012
How can I lose weight fast without diet pills?
I've been having a hard time losing weight, I've tried exercising for 45 min a day and it won't help much, does anyone know of any home remedies for weight loss or anything of that matter.
Answer on How can I lose weight fast without diet pills?
There is no "get thin quick" secret. There are things that you could do that will make you lose weight fast... but things like crash diets and working out until you pass out are bad for your body and you will only gain it back. I know this from experience.
My best tips are to eat several small healthy meals throughout the day, your body need fuel, if you don't feed it enough your body will think something is wrong and will try to store the food in case of emergency. When this happens you wont lose a pound. Change up your exercise routine every other day, work out your whole body, and keep active as much as possible during the day.
It's not fast but it will work. Also set small goals. Try to lose 10 pounds in the next 30 days. The another 10 next month. It IS a process, there is no magic pill. And remember soda is not your friend.
Answer on How can I lose weight fast without diet pills?
There is no "get thin quick" secret. There are things that you could do that will make you lose weight fast... but things like crash diets and working out until you pass out are bad for your body and you will only gain it back. I know this from experience.
My best tips are to eat several small healthy meals throughout the day, your body need fuel, if you don't feed it enough your body will think something is wrong and will try to store the food in case of emergency. When this happens you wont lose a pound. Change up your exercise routine every other day, work out your whole body, and keep active as much as possible during the day.
It's not fast but it will work. Also set small goals. Try to lose 10 pounds in the next 30 days. The another 10 next month. It IS a process, there is no magic pill. And remember soda is not your friend.
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Should I text him and what should I say?
I met this guy last Friday, it is now Wednesday. He added me as a friend on facebook yesterday but hasn't texted or called me at all. We both swapped numbers and he said he really wanted to see me again. So has he not got in contact with me because he's not interested? Should I just forget about him? Should I text him... and if so what should I say?
Answer on Should I text him and what should I say?
If I meet a person on a weekday, I usually give em til saturday to txt or call me- they may be busy with work during the week. If this person doesnt call u by saturday or sunday to make a date with u, then he prolly isnt that interested. If I meet a guy on a Thursday/Friday n he dont hit me up that weekend, I figure he wasnt that in2 me n move on. I give a few days to a week before i come to the conclusion that the person changed their mind or was just being polite when giving me their number.
If u rreally wana txt him, which i dont think u should cuz he is has to man up n handle his biz, but if u do wana txt him, just keep it casual:
Hey, what u doing this weekend?
If he txts u back with bs, let him be. If he txts u back trying to make plans with u, ur good.
Answer on Should I text him and what should I say?
If I meet a person on a weekday, I usually give em til saturday to txt or call me- they may be busy with work during the week. If this person doesnt call u by saturday or sunday to make a date with u, then he prolly isnt that interested. If I meet a guy on a Thursday/Friday n he dont hit me up that weekend, I figure he wasnt that in2 me n move on. I give a few days to a week before i come to the conclusion that the person changed their mind or was just being polite when giving me their number.
If u rreally wana txt him, which i dont think u should cuz he is has to man up n handle his biz, but if u do wana txt him, just keep it casual:
Hey, what u doing this weekend?
If he txts u back with bs, let him be. If he txts u back trying to make plans with u, ur good.
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
What does my girlfriend mean?
She doesn't know if she wants to be with me or not so we are in a complicated situation. She started talking to this guy and she claims that they're just friends. She said that he's really good looking but she knows nothing serious is going to happen with him, and it's just "harmless flirting." She pointed out that I went on a date too recently, but I only did it because I thought she just wanted to be friends.
I asked her if she just wants to be friends and she keeps saying "I don't know."
When I got on Facebook this is the convo we had:
Her: Hey
Me: Hey
Her: Are you Okay? Are you being weird with me?
Me: No
Her: Are you sure?
Me: Yeah
Her: Are you bothered about the fact that I'm talking to that guy?
Me: Don't care
Her: Then why are you being so bitter about it?
Me: I'm not
Her: You're giving me the cold shoulder and not talking to me properly.
Me: How do you want me to talk?
Her: Like normal. Since I told you about him today, you've been acting weird.
Me: I'm doing something at the moment. I gotta go.
Her: What a coincidence.
*Today we had another convo:
Her: Why are you giving me the cold shoulder?
Me: I'm not
Her: Ever since I told you about that guy, you've acted differently towards me.
Me: I haven't
Her: So you told your friends huh. What was their verdict?
Me: Why bring my friends into this.
Her: I know you told them. Don't deny the fact that you didn't.
Me: Why do you care if they know or not.
Her: Because they tell you things which makes you think negatively.
Me: Not really
Her: Yes really
Me: I've just been busy.
Her: Whatever you say.
Me: Okay
***So why is she acting this way? I called her an hour later and she didn't pick up. When I told her that I've been busy, and I've had a lot on my hands. She just said she can't talk. I asked why. She said she's talking to ten other people. I asked if she's talking to that guy. She didn't reply. I then told her not to call me back. She said she'll call when she's done. I said whatever, and then I said we should just go our seperate ways. Why is she acting like this? I really love her and I don't want to lose her...I'm supposed to see her in a week and I want to have a big talk about what we should do. So what's going on?
Answer on What does my girlfriend mean?
She can't decide how she feels about you. On the one hand, you've been together for a long time, and there's a comfort in familiarity. On the other hand, she doesn't feel the same spark as she used to and the prospect of a new relationship excites her. She's still trying to decide if she wants to stay with what she knows and be moderately happy or take a chance on a new guy, which may be really good or involve a lot of hurt. She can't decide whether she loves you enough to stay in this relationship. Sometimes though, not deciding is a decision. If she really loved you, she'd know it and there wouldn't be any question of whether or not she wants to stay. I would suggest that you break things off, at least temporarily. Break ups don't have to be forever. However, do realize that she isn't giving you want you want out of a relationship. You want loyalty and commitment, which doesn't seem like she's willing to give you. I know you must care for so much, but if she doesn't return your love, give it to someone else. You can remain friends with her if you want, but if doesn't know now, perhaps some distance between the two of you will help her decide.
I asked her if she just wants to be friends and she keeps saying "I don't know."
When I got on Facebook this is the convo we had:
Her: Hey
Me: Hey
Her: Are you Okay? Are you being weird with me?
Me: No
Her: Are you sure?
Me: Yeah
Her: Are you bothered about the fact that I'm talking to that guy?
Me: Don't care
Her: Then why are you being so bitter about it?
Me: I'm not
Her: You're giving me the cold shoulder and not talking to me properly.
Me: How do you want me to talk?
Her: Like normal. Since I told you about him today, you've been acting weird.
Me: I'm doing something at the moment. I gotta go.
Her: What a coincidence.
*Today we had another convo:
Her: Why are you giving me the cold shoulder?
Me: I'm not
Her: Ever since I told you about that guy, you've acted differently towards me.
Me: I haven't
Her: So you told your friends huh. What was their verdict?
Me: Why bring my friends into this.
Her: I know you told them. Don't deny the fact that you didn't.
Me: Why do you care if they know or not.
Her: Because they tell you things which makes you think negatively.
Me: Not really
Her: Yes really
Me: I've just been busy.
Her: Whatever you say.
Me: Okay
***So why is she acting this way? I called her an hour later and she didn't pick up. When I told her that I've been busy, and I've had a lot on my hands. She just said she can't talk. I asked why. She said she's talking to ten other people. I asked if she's talking to that guy. She didn't reply. I then told her not to call me back. She said she'll call when she's done. I said whatever, and then I said we should just go our seperate ways. Why is she acting like this? I really love her and I don't want to lose her...I'm supposed to see her in a week and I want to have a big talk about what we should do. So what's going on?
Answer on What does my girlfriend mean?
She can't decide how she feels about you. On the one hand, you've been together for a long time, and there's a comfort in familiarity. On the other hand, she doesn't feel the same spark as she used to and the prospect of a new relationship excites her. She's still trying to decide if she wants to stay with what she knows and be moderately happy or take a chance on a new guy, which may be really good or involve a lot of hurt. She can't decide whether she loves you enough to stay in this relationship. Sometimes though, not deciding is a decision. If she really loved you, she'd know it and there wouldn't be any question of whether or not she wants to stay. I would suggest that you break things off, at least temporarily. Break ups don't have to be forever. However, do realize that she isn't giving you want you want out of a relationship. You want loyalty and commitment, which doesn't seem like she's willing to give you. I know you must care for so much, but if she doesn't return your love, give it to someone else. You can remain friends with her if you want, but if doesn't know now, perhaps some distance between the two of you will help her decide.
Saturday, February 11, 2012
Is the media fueled by teeny boppers?
I was looking on twitter on who had the most followers and I saw that Oprah and Obama were in the top 20 and of course they are important people , but then i saw justin bieber and selena gomez, and i wondered who the hell in their right mind would care what these two had to tweet about.
Honestly speaking the only people who listen to selena gomez/justin beiber are teeny boppers. so apparently there are 3 million teeny boppers following these two.
my question is...is this why theyre famous? why the media is all over them? because 3 million teeny boppers think theyre great? i highly doubt that a person's level of talent and success can be judged by middle school girls who chew bubblegum and wear pigtails.
honestly. sometimes i feel like the media is one big joke...and the sad american society is forced to laugh along.
Answer on Is the media fueled by teeny boppers?
YES! omg yes! okay, quick swlf intro: i stidy Media- And into the theory of it all now!
Justin Bieber - He was found on the internet with over 3 million fans... Media production conpanies decided if 3 million people were to buy his music- Then the Media would make millions, hes just a tool used by the media to make money... It's nothing in relation to them being talented, it's the fact theyre popular with Teenagers who just happen to like his music.
And as for selena gomez, its the same situation.
The media industry is fueled by all consumers, whereas silly justin bieber pop is fueled by teeny boppers
Honestly speaking the only people who listen to selena gomez/justin beiber are teeny boppers. so apparently there are 3 million teeny boppers following these two.
my question is...is this why theyre famous? why the media is all over them? because 3 million teeny boppers think theyre great? i highly doubt that a person's level of talent and success can be judged by middle school girls who chew bubblegum and wear pigtails.
honestly. sometimes i feel like the media is one big joke...and the sad american society is forced to laugh along.
Answer on Is the media fueled by teeny boppers?
YES! omg yes! okay, quick swlf intro: i stidy Media- And into the theory of it all now!
Justin Bieber - He was found on the internet with over 3 million fans... Media production conpanies decided if 3 million people were to buy his music- Then the Media would make millions, hes just a tool used by the media to make money... It's nothing in relation to them being talented, it's the fact theyre popular with Teenagers who just happen to like his music.
And as for selena gomez, its the same situation.
The media industry is fueled by all consumers, whereas silly justin bieber pop is fueled by teeny boppers
Thursday, February 9, 2012
The San Francisco Giants Are Extremely Popular Now?
The Giants have over 900,000 fans on Facebook and 113,000 on Twitter. More than the Dodgers and more followers on Twitter than the Red Sox.
Are the Giants becoming one of the most popular teams in MLB? Top 5?
Answer on The San Francisco Giants Are Extremely Popular Now?
Layla is right. It's a bandwagon thing. I'm sure most of those "fans" never watched a game until the playoffs last year.
Are the Giants becoming one of the most popular teams in MLB? Top 5?
Answer on The San Francisco Giants Are Extremely Popular Now?
Layla is right. It's a bandwagon thing. I'm sure most of those "fans" never watched a game until the playoffs last year.
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